Maria Lane On the Making Of “if you touch me”
What is the inspiration behind it?
The inspiration came from experiencing casual intimacy, which feels completely different than intimacy when someone genuinely loves and cares about you. It’s especially hard when you get out of a relationship and you’re used to that deeper connection, but then you start dating again and it feels like no one wants anything beyond sex, and often they’re still hung up on their exes. That tension between craving real love and being offered something shallow is what sparked this song.
Were there any memorable or standout moments during the recording sessions for "if you touch me?"
Yes! We actually used a Nespresso pod as a shaker, which I love because now I can say this song technically has coffee in it. It was such a small but fun detail that made the session feel personal and playful.
What impact do you hope "if you touch me" will have on your audience?
I hope it resonates with people who’ve found themselves in casual situations even though they know they’re not casual people. I want those listeners to feel seen, to know it’s okay to want deeper intimacy, and that the lyrics reflect the confusion and longing they might carry too.
Can you share a bit about your musical background and the journey that led you to where you are today?
I’ve been writing songs my whole life, but I didn’t start releasing music until I was 25. At that point, it finally felt like the right time to put my words out publicly and see what it felt like to share my stories. For me, music has always been bigger than words alone, I feel more heard and understood when I’m singing about a situation than when I’m just talking about it.
Can you share a story about a collaboration that was particularly challenging or surprising?
In the past, I was in situations where some of my lyrics were changed, which was really challenging because lyrics are my way of expressing myself. It made me doubt myself as a writer for a while. Looking back, I see how important it was to learn that my voice and perspective matter, and that I need to trust my own words.
